Diane de Poitiers, mistress of King Henry of France

Diane de PoitiersDiane de Poitiers

Diane de Poitiers was the mistress of King Henry of France for 25 years.

Their relationship probably started when Henry was between 16-18 years old. It was 'official’ from 1538 when Prince Henry was 19 years old, and Diane almost 40, twenty years his senior! 

She remained his favourite all through his life; It started when he was still a prince. It continued when he married Cathérine de’ Medici in 1533.  When his elder brother died in 1536 and Henry became the Dauphin (successor of the throne), Diane was still by his side. And when he became king of France in 1547 she was still his favourite. 

It ended when King Henry died in 1559.

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Henry II (1519 – 1559), King of FranceHenry II (1519 – 1559), King of France
Catherine de' Medici (1519 – 1589), Queen of FranceCatherine de' Medici (1519 – 1589), Queen of France

Court life of Diane de Poitiers

Francis I and his courtiersFrancis I and his courtiers, Diane de Poitiers may very well be among them.

Diane de Poitiers had been a courtier all her life and knew the tricks of the trade. 

She got married at age 15 to Louis de Brézé, seigneur d'Anet. He was 39 years her senior. At age 22 she had two daughters, her husband died in 1531, when she was only 32.

Diane had been lady-in-waiting for the most powerful women at the French court; Queen Claude of France (wife of Francis I), Louise of Savoy, (mother of Francis I) and Eleanor of Austria (second wife of Francis I).

In 1533 the 14-year-old Maria de' Medici came to court to marry Prince Henry, also 14 at the time. Henry and Diane became lovers a little while later. Diane couldn't care less about Maria, this was just a young girl that she could control. She was experienced enough to know how to remain Henrie's favourite. She encouraged Henry to fulfil his marital duty, so to speak. She even took care of the 10 children Henry and Catherine produced. To have even more control Diane's own daughter Françoise was in charge of Catherine's staff. 

As long as Francis I was still alive Anne de Pisseleuhis, his favourite mistress,  was the star at the palace. Diane was waiting for her chance to shine.

As soon as King Francis died in 1559, Diane had the Duchess banned from court. She even went as far as to have her imprisoned at the estate of her husband (who was already dead by then). Now it was her time! She now truly was the most powerful woman of France, for the next twelve years.

Symbol of King Henry II and Diane, or Catherine..?Symbol of King Henry II and Diane, or Catherine..?

The love triangle between Henry, Catherine and Diane is expressed wonderfully by the Monogram of Henry. It shows an intertwining H and C, or is it H and D?! 

The fact that you can find this monogram all over Chateau de Anet, seems proof that it is, in fact, the symbol of Henry and Diane and not that of Henry and Catherine.


Make your own decision, here are some examples to help you.

Girlfight over the Chateau the Chenonceau

Then disaster struck in 1559 when Henri was fatally injured at a tournament. His wife Queen Cathérine was eager to ban Diana de Poitiers from the court, and did not even wait until the king was dead.

According to legend, Henry was crying out for Diane on his deathbed. Catherine would not allow her to enter the royal bed-chamber. Diane had to leave the court and could not say goodbye to her beloved king. 

Diana went to the Château the Chenonceau, which King Henry had given to her. She had always loved this chateau and she was the one that had the arched bridge build that joins the Chateau to the other side of the river Cher. She also was responsible for the extensive flower and vegetable gardens.

Queen Catherine thought this castle (it's the lovely one built in the middle of the Cher River) was too much for the mistress. She forced Diana to trade it for her own castle Château de Chaumont. 

Catherine made Chenonceau her favourite residence during her years as regent of France.

Diane only lived at Château de Chaumont for a short while before she moved to her own Château d'Anet.

Chaumont also was a gift from the king. It is built on the estate Diane had inherited from her husband Louis de Brézé (who had already died in 1531). Catherine could not take this castle from her.

Château de Chaumont

Diane lived seven more years, passing time with charity works, and died at the age of 65 in 1566. Her professional career did catch up with her and ultimately caused her death. She had the habit of drinking liquid gold to keep her skin looking young (a requirement for a mistress to stay in business). This probably killed her in the end.

Diane de Poitiers was buried in the mortuary chapel at Château d'Anet.

Chateau d'Anet

Diane de Poitiers ca. 1550Diane de Poitiers ca. 1550

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Plan your visit to Chateau de Chenonceau

Ticket fees and opening hours:

Adult ticket  € 13.00 Children € 10.00 Children under 7 years old : Free

The palace is open every day all year long- check accurate opening times on their website.

Hints and tips

Get fantastic aerial views of the Loire Valley Châteaux in a hot-air balloon! Departure from the village of Francueil, near Chenonceau, in the early morning or evening. More information.

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Almost all tours to the Loire Valley visit the Chateau de Chenonceau, because it is just one of the most enchanting palaces!

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Chateau de Chenonceau
37150 Chenonceaux
France 

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Chateau de Chissay

Only 5.6 km from Chateau de Chenonceau, (Amboise is 17 km away) you can spend the night in style in this lovely Chateau Hotel. It has an excellent restaurant and friendly, helpful staff. 

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On walking distance, only 500 m from Château de Chenonceau, you will find this 18th-century manor. It is conveniently close to the Chenonceaux train Station (400m). Also close to the city centre whit a wide choice of restaurants. Low rates and big rooms!

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Plan your visit to Chateau de Chaumont

Ticket fees and opening hours:

Adult ticket  € 12.00 Children € 4.00 Children under 7 years old : Free

A Multimedia guide for the Château is € 4.00

The palace is open every day all year long- check accurate opening times on their website.

Hints and tips

  • If you want to see all the grounds and gardens with exhibitions and installations you need to buy the “Domain” ticket for 1 or 2 days. An adult ticket is 
  • Each year the International Garden Festival is held on the Castle grounds of Domaine de Chaumont-sur-Loire. More information can be found on their website.

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Le Château
41150 Chaumont-sur-Loire
France

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Hostellerie Du Chateau

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Plan your visit to Château d'Anet

Ticket fees and opening hours:

April - 1st of October - the castle is open every day except Tuesday, between 14,00 - 18,00

In November, and between 1st of February - 31 of March - the castle is open only in the weekend between 14,00 and 17,00.

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  • You can only visit this chateau with a guided tour which will take about 1 hour. The guide will most probably speak French!

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2, place du château 
28260 Anet
France

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